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"Detour-Spotting" challenges every single excuse we collectively have for not resolving racism in America. Jona Olsson has done a great job of laying out issue after issue of these commonly used reasons our conversation about race gets derailed every time we attempt it.

I think it's important to note that as we look at this list, at least some of the time, the problems we are encountering here aren't intentional. Even determined anti-racists can fall into the traps of the sociological and psychological elements that serve to guard egos and protect feelings and to support the system as it is. We have to remember not to personalize the issues we discuss (especially white anti-racists who seek to help) because that doesn't allow us to properly examine them, to look at what they do and how they do it, and won't permit us to bring them to an end, which, I hope we agree, is the whole reason for doing this.

Today, we have a surprisingly (possibly alarmingly) popular one:

12) Innocence By Association

“I’m not racist, because... I have Vietnamese friends, or my lover is Black, or I marched with Dr. King.”

Reality Check and Consequence

(Perhaps, if every white person who says they marched with Dr. King actually had, the current situation would look different!)

This detour into denial wrongly equates personal interactions with people of color, no matter how intimate they may be, with anti-racism. There is an assumption that our personal associations free us magically from our racist conditioning.


Perception counts for a lot. But it's the gap between what we think we see and what someone else is observing that causes rifts and misunderstandings which can lead to serious problems.

What is a friend, anyway? We seem to have varying definitions of that word too. Friends on Facebook or twitter are different from your schoolmate who has been a part of your life since kindergarten. And are your co-workers people you would call friends?

Here's the thing. It's great when people of different backgrounds can co-exist and can even behave in a civil, polite or, can I say it, friendly way towards each other. But just because you eat meals together, are fans of the same sports team or even like the very same music, doesn't mean there is a complete understanding of that other person, their life experiences and what meaning some random comment can have for them that may seem innocuous or unimportant to you.

We touched on being "Politically Correct" previously, but this is another good time to mention it. Political correctness is a way for people to admit they don't know everything there is to know about a subject, a person, a group of people, a portion of the population, and you won't say anything negative because you don't really know or understand that person's position, their struggles, what they have to deal with on a day to day basis.

To turn this briefly into a "sexism" discussion just as an example, a woman, simply going from point A to point B in public, encounters a man who looks at her and says something like: "Smile! It'll make you look better!"

That comment, in and of itself, may not be offensive. But it does not take into account a lot of factors that the speaker has no way of knowing. Maybe the woman is thinking about where she has to go, is mentally preparing for something and is focusing. Maybe she has just suffered a serious problem of some kind and is trying to maintain her emotions. Maybe she has been harassed in a more unacceptable way earlier in her walk by someone intending to be controlling or lewd. The point is, the speaker, looking for some sort of recognition, and wanting to see something pleasant for himself, is not thinking at all about the other person.

But, the idea is to think about that other person before you make some comment. Of course, that would mean you believe thinking about that other person suggests they are worthy of thought and not just someone who is there for your pleasure or benefit, your hatred or abuse.

Life is already a challenge for everyone. We don't need to add weight to someone else's load by being thoughtless about the language we use or the actions we take.

One of the ultimate "White Privilege" issues surfaces when the question of using The "N" Word comes along.

The "N" Word has it's own place in American lore. There really isn't another word like it. Nothing can evoke history, cause a controversy or create an immediate reaction like a white person using The "N" Word against a black person.

Just like racism itself, there is no word that a black person can say to a white person that would create any similar visceral reaction, or carry the centuries of abuse, the litany of anger and the elements of oppression attached to that word, meaning that there is no way for a white person to know and understand what those feelings are and how they might manifest because of their use of that word.

One way to reduce the heat that some in the black community had chosen was to use that word, or the variation of it, among themselves. In that sense, it is a method of tamping down the intended meaning and to give it another, kinder meaning. It's a method of reducing the power and "taking back" the word. Redefining, self-directing, and improving: all part of the way to help get past the word and use it in a positive way.

White people have observed this usage, in popular culture, in music and film, and maybe first hand, at a high school or a shopping mall and some might wonder why they can't use the word also.

But, of course, just because you are connected in some way with a person of color, doesn't mean you magically are no longer racist. Racism is a very complicated and complex state to dwell in, and it takes much longer to unlearn bad behaviors than it took to adopt them growing up. It's especially challenging when you realize that many white people don't understand what racism actually is, don't really care to learn what it is, don't get how harmful it is, don't think twice about how harmful it might be, and then they add insult to injury by making a bad comment. But hey. It was just a joke. We're still friends, right? I'll buy the next round of fried chicken and watermelon.

Innocence, at least when it comes to racism, is earned, not given. But that's because we are under the influence of the system of racism.


Previous thinkposts in this series:

1. Day One - I'm Colorblind
2. Day Two - Bootstrap Theory
3. Day Three - Reverse Racism
4. Day Four - Blame The Victim
5. Day Five - The White Knight
6. Day Six - Lighten Up
7. Day Seven - Don't Blame Me
8. Day Eight - BWAME
9. Day Nine - We Have Overcome
10. Day Ten - The End Run
11. Day Eleven - Due Process

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My exploration of Jona Olsson's essay, about our ways of avoiding a discussion of race in America, demonstrates some very important psychological issues that help define the circumstances we're trying to examine.

Let's admit this. Everyone is living life, dealing with the problems on their own plates, probably feeling a bit like they aren't getting what they truly deserve and likely dealing with their circumstances as best they can, with a minimum of complaint or reaction. Hunker down and get'er done.

When it comes to the topic of racism, white people really don't know anything about it. I mean, they have *some* idea - they know it's about inequality and about slavery and about how black people aren't winning enough Oscars. But they also know that white people aren't allowed to win the Miss Black America pageant, so maybe everything is a little bit unfair for everyone?

Think about this. No white person has ever actually had a racist act committed against them in the USA. And, of course, there will be a number of white people who will immediately refute that statement because they suffered an attack from a black person or persons in school or at work or at the ball game or at a bar. The attack was, we're generally told, unprovoked and focused on the fact that they, the attacked person, is white, and it was harmful and hurtful, and that kind of racism proves that this really is a two way street of hate.

And so, we are perpetually dealing with one of the most common problems of racism: not knowing the definition of racism.

Perhaps we can get a bit closer to understanding what that word means with today's topic:

11) Due Process

“Lady Justice is [color] blind.” White parents who tell their children, “The police are here to protect you. If they ever stop you, just be polite and tell the truth.” Then when a Black teen is beaten or killed by police, those same parents say, “He must have been doing something wrong, to provoke that kind of police response.”


Reality Check and Consequence

Many white people believe that the police, courts, the legal system and social services work without bias; that due process, fair trials, juries, judges, police officers and case workers have everyone’s best interest at heart, including people of color. Or at least, no less than they do for white people. This belief clouds reality. We tend to look at isolated incidents rather than the patterns of institutionalized oppression.

The legacy of institutionalized racism has left its indelible mark on the U. S. legal system. Even when individual police officers, judges or juries strive to be fair and unbiased, the system itself has been corrupted by centuries of racism. “Innocent until proven guilty” may be turned to “guilty until proven innocent” for too many people of color who enter the legal system.


Herein lies one of the clearest pieces of evidence of the "institutionalized" elements of racism that exist in our country. What are we talking about when we use the phrase "institutionalized racism?" It's the way institutions like the government, federal, state and local police forces, college and school systems, even retail sales outlets, restaurants and other places of business treat people of different skin color, differently.

The problem, as Ms. Olsson states, is that the assumption on the part of white people that police always behave exactly the same way with every citizen that crosses their path and that any time there is a deviation from that normalcy, it was created, caused or forced to happen by whatever the minority person must have done during their interaction.

Even when we have videotape proof of what happened, a "believe your own eyes" moment, when a white officer has done something that violates a minority person's Constitutional rights, there is still a strong sense coming from the white community that the police were justified in their behavior and the minority citizen did, in fact, get what was deserved for their actions.

And just as the assumption of minority citizens' actions tilts the scales of justice toward "guilty until proven innocent," so does every police officer have the advantage of a system that will do everything to prevent them from even standing trial, much less getting convicted for breach of protocol. But that's how institutionalized racism works: the agency has to be right and the minority person is clearly wrong.

Here's something important to consider. Police officers aren't drafted into the job. They voluntarily sign up to join the force. As they do, they, we presume, are aware of the benefits and dangers of the job. Then, when they pass their physical, strength and psychological tests, they go to Police Academy, where they are trained in how to deal with all of the situations one might expect to occur on their beat.

As they are trained and tested on their training before they can wear a badge and be officers of the law, they have a higher responsibility to act within those laws. After all, they have received training that the general public has not. They are permitted to carry a firearm so we presume their training has helped them know and understand the appropriate time to use it and when it is not correct to use it. Yet, time and again, we hear officers stating that they "emptied their revolvers" because "they felt threatened."

We understand that shooting first and finding out the facts later is not proper protocol. Yet, in cases where the victim is an unarmed black person, that is never questioned, those elements are taken at face value and the police, who have a very tough job to do, are permitted this judgment call because, well, it was a judgment call.

You see how difficult this is to explain to the family of the person killed?

The trouble with racism lies in that earlier point I made: no white person has ever actually experienced it. Yes white people have dealt with "bias attacks" and have been the victims of prejudice. But no white person has been oppressed specifically because of what color skin they have. This is a problem because there is no context, on the part of white people, to have experienced what many minorities go through on a weekly, daily, or even hourly basis.

It's because of this lack of context that white people imagine that they personally have no privilege, that they believe black people are overstepping their bounds when they protest, that they cannot fathom why, after Barack Obama had been elected President of the United States, we are still talking about racism.

In a system that criminalizes young black boys before they even get the chance to grow up (commonly referred to as the "School to Prison Pipeline"), a system which bends over backwards to find any excuse to justify a cop's devastating actions, even if it's clear the officer did the wrong thing and knew it before they acted, in a system that places more value on a white person's livelihood than on a black person's life, we have a problem.

But it returns to that point that if you have never been a victim of racism, you have no concept of what that feels like, of how that impacts you psychologically, emotionally, physically. You simply don't know how that changes your perception of the world, how it limits what you can and cannot do, how it forces you to reduce your options and squelch your dreams. If you are a white person you can't be nearly as understanding about this, as it is something you have never experienced and you will never experience. This is a language that folks who are not minority citizens don't speak, naturally.

And, when it comes to translation, it's difficult to find the words that could help make racism understandable for white people. Even metaphors fall short when we talk about a brilliant young job applicant who dreamed of working for a company, who showed up for an interview and was left sitting in the waiting room for hours, only to be told that the person who was supposed to discuss the position, somehow wasn't there.

A white person might state, that wasn't "racism," that was bad timing, or an unfortunate circumstance, or a coincidence. But a white person, never having experienced racism empirically, doesn't realize that when you have had a lifetime of situations similar to that, you learn to recognize it for what it actually is. That's another element of white privilege in action: the fact that white people do not fully comprehend what racism is and that they do not believe that black people experience it because white people have no template for it.

It's within that gap between hearing black people complain about racism and knowing that white people have never experienced racism that we have the Mount Everest of issues when grasping the attempt to simply have a conversation about it. How do we get over that?

Well, we need Sherpas: people who can help guide us along, pointing out the pitfalls and potential hazards we face and can warn us away from actions that might slow our climb, possibly create serious problems or potentially cause an avalanche which could kill other people also on our path or us. That's the gauntlet that Ms. Olsson, and the previously mentioned Tim Wise and Jane Elliott have chosen to take up. But, sherpas aren't going to help us if we pay them no heed. And our ascent of this mountain has been going on for a very long while.

To continue the metaphor, the end of slavery was like our arrival at the base of the mountain. The passage of the Civil Rights Act, effectively bringing an end to segregation and finally stopping Jim Crow Laws was like reaching the first base camp, but white people presumed we had made it to the top and that the climb had ended. And that different perception persists through every step we have taken up this mountain. White people assume we have finished the job when we still have so very far to go to reach the summit.

I want to take a separate moment to talk about Jane Elliott, because she does an exercise that can potentially give white people a hint at what racism is and how it feels. Ms. Elliott's "Blue Eyes/Brown Eyes" Experiment was first created shortly after Martin Luther King's assassination, as a way of helping her grade school students understand the underpinning of why King was an important figure, why he was killed, the concept of bias and racism, why it is wrong and how it has an impact for people on both sides, not just those we perceive as the victims of it.

The workshop runs just a few hours of time but it is a way of letting people that have no experience in being discriminated against, based solely on how they look, the blessing of having that happen for them. Through that event, white people have the opportunity to acquire some sense of what minorities in this country experience on a regular basis. Many, through this glimpse into a life experience they never had before, begin to understand the impact of racism and maybe even acquire some empathy for those that have lived underneath it all of their lives.

Due Process, just to bring it back to today's discussion, cannot happen if we always believe that a police officer can never do wrong and that a minority citizen always must have done something to deserve their fate. We are human beings. We make mistakes. We have been conditioned to believe certain things as fact. That changes how we view a situation and the people in it. It's within those biases we are viewing these issues. And if we can't even understand how those perceptions distort how we see these circumstances, our ascent to the mountaintop will be just that much more delayed.


Previous thinkposts in this series:

1. Day One - I'm Colorblind
2. Day Two - Bootstrap Theory
3. Day Three - Reverse Racism
4. Day Four - Blame The Victim
5. Day Five - The White Knight
6. Day Six - Lighten Up
7. Day Seven - Don't Blame Me
8. Day Eight - BWAME
9. Day Nine - We Have Overcome
10. Day Ten - The End Run

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"Detour-Spotting," Jona Olsson's commendable essay listing the various reasons why white people, many of whom are very well meaning, well-intentioned supporters of equality among all Americans, can't seem to get a handle on helping stop racism is worth reading on its own. I have been taking each one of her points and giving it a separate essay, primarily because each one deserves a closer look. But I'm also doing it this way because it's a lot to handle in one swallow, especially for people who are not as familiar with many of these concepts as minorities have been. It's helpful to remember that if you aren't aware of an oppression, you might not even believe it exists until you start to hear from those who have suffered it. And even after your first exposure, you still might not fully comprehend that this is real, and not some imagining on the part of the complainer.

We have covered a lot of topics so far and I have to say, it would be bad if the issues already discussed were all of the ones we have to deal with when it comes to our failure of having our mythical discussion of race in America. But we're not even close to being halfway through this list. With that in mind, let's not waste more time... here's today's topic:

10) The End Run, Escapism

“Of course, racism is terrible, but what about sexism? or classism? or heterosexism?” or “Racism is a result of classism (or choose any other oppression,) so if we just work on that, racism will end, too.”


Reality Check and Consequence

I agree with Audre Lorde’s statement, “There is no hierarchy of oppression.” I would not establish a rank order for oppressions. At the same time, we cannot attempt to evade recognition and responsibility for any form of oppression. Statements like the ones above divert attention away from racial injustice to focus on some other form of oppression. They are usually said by white people (women, working class people, Lesbians, gay men or others) who experience both white privilege and oppression in some form. We are all more willing and more comfortable decrying our oppression than scrutinizing our privilege. Oppressions are so inextricably linked that if we allow our fear, guilt and denial to constantly divert us from confronting racism, even while we work to dismantle other forms, no oppression will ever be dismantled.



When we talk about racism, where white people and black people are discussing this issue with each other (a situation that really isn't as common a circumstance as any of us might believe), the initial reaction from white people is sometimes a posture of defense, as we have seen from Ms. Olsson's point titled "Don't Blame Me." It can then slide into "Bootstrap Theory" or "Reverse Racism." But if it goes to "But What About Me," the argument connected with today's topic is often the next point made: "I have endured homophobia and I manage to still do well in life." "I have had a very tough time because of sexism, but I have succeeded because I didn't let that stop me."

While the elements of the struggles each individual faces are notable, comparing those struggles, and worse, suggesting that overcoming one means you should be able to handle another, is neither fair nor accurate. But the bigger problem here is the diversion that occurs when someone makes those points. Instead of talking about racism, which was the intended discussion point, we're suddenly talking about an issue that is off-topic. And that is by design.

As Ms. Olsson points out, "We are all more willing and more comfortable decrying our oppression than scrutinizing our privilege."

And this discussion about racism is not at all "comfortable." Some white people are still likely concerned they'll have to find a way to give every black person in America forty acres of land and a mule or more seriously, might simply think that black people expect that reward somehow (no, that isn't expected, btw).

We are dealing with white people who implicitly understand they do have an advantage over black people in this country, and yet if anything is mentioned, they are the ones feeling hurt and personally blamed for a situation that has been going on for decades, and one that will continue the longer we delay in discussing it. But we can't seem to discuss it because white people feel personally blamed. That is the paradox we face when it comes to racism. Again, we can't possibly get to fix it if we can't even talk about it. And, from the discomfort talking about it causes white people, we still don't seem quite ready to talk yet.

I guess the question is when is there a good time to talk about racism? It's like asking when is there a good time to discuss gun control. You can't do it after a mass shooting. It's too emotional. You can't do it when there's no murders happening. Everything is fine. So, we continue on with nothing changed except the names of the latest victims and the grieving parents or fiances or spouses or children... and that's on both counts: gun control AND racism.

To state it directly, a case of white discomfort when discussing racism is preventing the talk that could potentially save black lives.

That's a tough fact to know.


Previous thinkposts in this series:

1. Day One - I'm Colorblind
2. Day Two - Bootstrap Theory
3. Day Three - Reverse Racism
4. Day Four - Blame The Victim
5. Day Five - The White Knight
6. Day Six - Lighten Up
7. Day Seven - Don't Blame Me
8. Day Eight - BWAME
9. Day Nine - We Have Overcome

A reminder: because of the sensitive nature of the subject, comments directly to this and all previous and future essays in this series are screened. Thank you.
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Jona Olsson's important essay on "Detour-Spotting" and the methods that America is using, purposely or subconsciously, to either divert any discussion of racism to some other topic or to avoid the concept completely, is a challenge, is a concern, is a difficult view on all of these points.

My need to review Ms. Olsson's essay began with my post - Killing Police Officers following the Dallas massacre of five local law enforcement agents on July 8, 2016 which opened a bit of a discussion about the issues of race in America.

As I always note on thinkposts, they are thoughts. And other thoughts are welcome. And the discussion that needs to happen has to start somewhere. These are not "lectures" where nothing gets questioned. We need to talk through any confusion or any differences in how we see the circumstances in order to come to some kind of understanding, and clearly, understanding is a major missing piece in this very difficult puzzle. Point being, I don't mean to assume anything. But I hope that if you aren't responding, it's not from some hesitation to speak directly to any of these issues, or to me.

One proviso: all comments left on this series of essays are screened.

It's time for today's topic:

9) We Have Overcome

“We dealt with racism in the 60’s with all the marches, sit-ins and speeches by Dr. King. Laws have been changed. Segregation and lynching are ended. We have some details to work out but real racism is pretty much a thing of the past.”


Reality Check and Consequence

The absence of legalized, enforced segregation does not equal the end of racism. This denial of contemporary racism, based on inaccurate assessment of both history and current society, romanticizes the past and diminishes today’s reality.

We just have to look at the volcanic rise of racist hate groups during the campaign and since the election of President Barack Obama, to know racism is alive and well in the United States.


As always, perspective is a part of the problem when we discuss anything to do with racism, and that will always come back to "White Privilege" and the assumption on the part of white people that "White Privilege" simply does not exist.

I feel like if we can get past the concept of "White Privilege," we might actually be able to begin talking about racism. Unfortunately, it's a really difficult point to make, primarily because the people who need to see it are the ones who are sitting in a blind spot about it.

Tim Wise is another anti-racist activist I have previously referenced. It's funny to discuss Tim because more than a few black people have stated that he is using racism as a method of simply making himself a good payday, as his speaking fees on the topic of race are pretty great: it's been said he earns $10,000 per appearance - making those critics believe that he is yet another white person who is simply profiting from racism.

I can totally understand that viewpoint, even as I don't agree with it. Of course, I wrote an essay equating racism as an addiction, and it does parallel those issues. I bring that thinkpost up again now because within that essay, I briefly touch on the point that:

when it comes to addiction, an addict will not listen to the people who are being abused as a reason/motivation to stop.

which is why Tim Wise is so needed in this discussion. We have seen how the #BlackLivesMatter group has been diminished, equated with white hate groups as if it was the black response version of the Ku Klux Klan, and generally either criminalized, harshly criticized or ignored at large by many white people. We can say the same, or worse, about how the white majority viewed the Black Panther Party throughout the 1960s.

Sometimes it takes a person of the same race to point out the problems of racism to those that don't understand. So, to me, people like Wise, Jane Elliott who created her now famous "Blue Eyes/Brown Eyes" experiment for her grade school class shortly after the assassination of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and has been teaching it yearly, worldwide, ever since, and Ms. Olsson are important, useful and needed in the struggle to put an end to racism.

To come back to today's point, of course racism still exists. There are still people who not only believe that black people are "inferior" to white people, they take action: they ridicule, they abuse, they may even torture and kill.

This is why the outcry over white police officers who kill unarmed black citizens is so important. It's not just about those singular events where

Freddie Gray

Michael Brown

Tamir Rice

Eric Garner

and literally hundreds of others who have been killed at the hands of the people sworn to protect the public.

No. It's much more than that.

See, with every acquittal that happens in cases like these, two messages are sent. The first message goes out to police officers and says: if you do something like this in the course of your patrol, you will be protected.

A message like that means that police never have to think twice before using deadly force. They know that they will be exonerated at the end of whatever semblance of a court case is created, which also means they are more likely to just go ahead and kill rather than use some logic and common sense and obey the proper protocols they have been taught when dealing with suspects. And, at least in the case of Darren Wilson, the cop that shot and killed Michael Brown, he made a tremendous profit from it, getting money raised for his trial to the amount of nearly half a million dollars.

The second message goes to everyone and it basically says that black people are not equal in the eyes of the law to white people.

That is a message that pervades everyone's thoughts and minds and instills feelings of fear and self-loathing within the black community, but also creates a lack of concern and a sense of justification over any action against black people by white observers. Hatred is perpetuated, justice is ignored and Status Quo rules the day.

All of this goes to help bolster the causes of racism and creates an atmosphere where some desperate people begin to think that a logical choice would be to start killing random police officers. You can see how more innocent people are dying specifically because of racist attitudes.

The only way to "overcome" is to finally have this long delayed discussion about race in America. In this discussion I do focus more on black people as the targets of hate, not only because of my personal history, but because it is the longest and most hateful element of racism throughout this country's history. Some could argue that Native Americans received bad treatment as well, and indeed we can certainly point out many instances where that was the case. But the issues of slavery and Jim Crow, which took up about four-hundred years of our collective American experience, cannot be ignored.

Again, we aren't talking about slavery or Jim Crow Laws for that matter, to lay blame on currently living white people. But we have to talk about them to put them in context with racist thoughts and actions of today, as they are the groundwork that set the stage for everything that has followed.

We are still hoping to overcome.


Previous thinkposts in this series:

1. Day One - I'm Colorblind
2. Day Two - Bootstrap Theory
3. Day Three - Reverse Racism
4. Day Four - Blame The Victim
5. Day Five - The White Knight
6. Day Six - Lighten Up
7. Day Seven - Don't Blame Me
8. Day Eight - BWAME

A reminder: because of the sensitive nature of the subject, comments directly to this and all previous and future essays in this series are screened. Thank you.
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Continuing to examine Jona Olsson's "Detour-Spotting", an essay that looks at a vast number of reasons why we have not been able to have a proper discussion about race in America. I know this can be exhausting, believe me. But living with racism can be fatal, so there's no excuse and certainly no reason to complain about a little discomfort. We're all human beings here. We all deserve to have some respect. We need to finally repair these problems and get beyond the issues of skin color if we actually want a country and eventually a world that is kind, that is just, that is fair.

Today's topic relates to yesterday's one.

8) BWAME

“But What About Me. Look how I’ve been hurt, oppressed, exploited...?”


Reality Check and Consequence

This diminishes the experience of people of color by telling our [[white people's]] own story of hardship. We lose an opportunity to learn more about the experience of racism from a person of color, while we minimize their experience by trying to make it comparable or less painful than ours.


Again, the issue of "privilege" comes into play here, and it's one that is, to say the least, challenging for white people to understand, much less apply to their own lives.

We have to be very clear when we talk about this. Nobody is saying that all white people have easy, pleasant, happy and successful lives, when we discuss the topic of "White Privilege." Really, the term "White Privilege" actually has less to do with any one white person and more to do with all of the minorities in the country who do not have the benefit of being white to help them, even a little bit.

Just as a reminder, "White Privilege" provides comfort and protection, which cannot be underestimated as a help when dealing with the day to day issues of life. It may not make you rich, but it still offers a kind of peace of mind. As previously noted, interactions with police are a very good example of White Privilege, as mentioned in the previous topic.

But we want to give white people a bit of a break here as well. This is a system that has been in place for a much longer time than any of us have been living. The basis for this kind of thinking and treatment is rooted back before the United States was a separate country. So, let's be clear: talking about "White Privilege" is not attempting to "blame" white people (and certainly not those who are currently alive) for it, or to be overtly critical of it. But we have to discuss this because it is a part of the racist circumstances that exist in our country. This issue isn't any one person's responsibility - not to have created it, not to be responsible for dismantling it. But we have to start examining it and seeing the role it plays, both in supporting white people and in harming minority people.

Let's bring it back to the specifics of today's topic: Ms. Olsson just misses the mark on this, but that's understandable. Keep in mind, everyone sees their personal problems as the biggest issues in their lives. Obviously, if you are experiencing something bad, YOU are experiencing something BAD. It doesn't get more personal than that. You are dealing with a problem that impacts you in a direct way. You have an issue with a late mortgage payment. You can't make the repairs on the motorbike. Plans for that weekend trip to the mountains, ruined.

While these are legitimate concerns for a person in that position, it ignores a host of issues - the fact that you have property that can be mortgaged, the ability to own a recreational vehicle, being able to go to a weekend getaway... these are all things that could fall under the concept of privilege.

What we're not fully examining is how both privilege and oppression work together to make racism that much more difficult. Again, people are focused on their own problems so they don't see these elements at work, and as most everybody is very focused on their own problems, those seem magnified compared to what is happening to someone else.

Additionally, as racism helps define who we think is valuable in society and who deserves to be ignored, another part of this problem is that black people are simply not considered worthy of the same attention and care, making any problem they might complain about that much less important in the scheme of how society functions, overall.

As I previously stated, this is not an easy concept to understand, which only makes it that much more difficult to discuss, which means it's that much more challenging to resolve.

What matters is that this discussion of "white privilege" isn't meant to make white people feel badly about themselves. It's here to open up a dialogue, to make everyone aware of it, to start doing things that make life fairer for all of us, not just some. This also isn't a criticism of the hard work that white people are doing to accomplish what they want; it's merely stating that there are a lot of other people who are also hard-working, perhaps even harder working because of the circumstances, who are not receiving the same treatment and/or are not reaping the same rewards, simply because they are minority citizens, and shouldn't we fix this?

Until we are able to see the concept of "White Privilege" with a clear eye and a clear mind, we will continue to have knee-jerk reactions in place of proper discussions, with white people taking this concept personally and responding with more dismissive responses when it comes to this very serious plank in the racist agenda.


Previous thinkposts in this series:

1. Day One - I'm Colorblind
2. Day Two - Bootstrap Theory
3. Day Three - Reverse Racism
4. Day Four - Blame The Victim
5. Day Five - The White Knight
6. Day Six - Lighten Up
7. Day Seven - Don't Blame Me

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Jona Olsson originally wrote the essay "Detour-Spotting" almost twenty years ago, but she could have written it yesterday, based on the movement (or lack of movement) against racism we have seen in that nearly two decade span. I know there have been some high profile changes and victories during that time, not the least of which are Barack and Michelle Obama, but the point is not to look at any individual case. Rather, this is about the entire landscape of race in America and how everyone is doing at this time.

That brings us to today's important and possibly most controversial point on the list:

7) Don’t Blame Me

“I never owned slaves.” or “I didn’t vote for David Duke.” or “None of my family joined the Klan.” or “I taught my children that racism is wrong.”


Reality Check and Consequence

Often white people hear blame whenever the issue of racism is brought up,

whether or not blame has been placed on us. As beneficiaries of racism and white privilege, we sometimes strike a defensive posture even when we are not being individually blamed. We may personalize the remarks, put ourselves in the center, but most references to racism are not directed personally at us. It is the arrogance of our privilege, that drags the focus back to us.

When we are being blamed or personally accused of racist behavior, this defensiveness and denial further alienates us and probably precludes our examining our possible racist behavior.


This is a really tough one for many white people to fully understand, primarily because of their own fears of "reprisal" and/or "revenge." And this is one of the biggest methods of derailing any conversation about race in America, simply because of white fear and ego getting in the way.

This discussion also relies on the point that white people have what's known as "privilege," which is a word, like "racism" that has a meaning that doesn't seem to be understood.

"Privilege" - a special right, advantage, or immunity granted or available only to a particular person or group of people.

That should be pretty easy to understand, right? So, when we speak about "White Privilege," we're talking about the rights, advantages and immunity granted to white people that other minority groups do not have.

For example, a white teenager having an interaction with police in an affluent suburb of a large American city will likely have a very different experience from a black teenager having an interaction with police in a ghetto of a large American city. Even if the white teen was a drug dealer and the black teen was an upstanding scholar, we implicitly know that, because of racism, the black teen will suffer a more difficult interaction than the white teen. That's privilege.

The problem occurs when we attempt to discuss the issue of "privilege" and white people immediately deny that they have it, usually by saying things like "I don't have it easy," or "nobody gave me anything in life, I had to work hard to get it."

But that's where we have a problem within the definition of privilege. It's not about what anyone personally did to achieve, it's about the system that prevents minorities from having the opportunity to do the same hard work to permit them the chance to succeed too.

What we're talking about here isn't the fact that white people have an easy time of living. But they have fewer obstacles in their paths when it comes to achieving, they have fewer concerns about negative elements that have proven to be a major problem for minorities and they have a support system that works to help them, where many minority communities either have no system or the system of racism that works against them.

The problem is that white people, immersed in their own world views, cannot see their own privilege because to them, it's just normal life. It's only when something comes in to change their view - like Affirmative Action for example - that suddenly they sit up and take notice. Now, minorities are gaining "advantages" over them. Now, it's time to do something. How dare they come in, unqualified or underqualified, and take a college placement away from a better educated white kid? It's time to protest and sue.

But when you have had all the advantages for all time, and then we try to tilt the scales ever so slightly to make things more fair, it feels like an attack on white people and something must be done. White people don't deserve to be attacked, especially ones that haven't done anything racist!

And here we are. Defensive white people stating as loudly and as clearly as they can that they are not responsible because they are not racist, meanwhile, they are complacent because they are willing and able to overlook their privilege and how that impacts both their success and the failures of minority people in our country.

Arguably, this is one of the most difficult elements of racism to understand, and even the most supportive anti-racists sometimes don't quite get it, either. It's going to take more high-functioning people like Jona Olsson to chisel through the concrete of this concept so that white people won't immediately flinch, deny or shout it down before we properly examine it.


Previous thinkposts in this series:

1. Day One - I'm Colorblind
2. Day Two - Bootstrap Theory
3. Day Three - Reverse Racism
4. Day Four - Blame The Victim
5. Day Five - The White Knight
6. Day Six - Lighten Up

A reminder: because of the sensitive nature of the subject, comments directly to this and all previous and future essays in this series are screened. Thank you.
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"Detour-Spotting" continues to be the basis for this series of thinkposts Re: why we can't seem to make any progress on the issue of race in America. Jona Olsson's essay is lengthy, wide-ranging and deserves to be examined closely, so I'm going point by point through it to expand on the thoughts she is offering and to clarify the view just a bit.

Today's offering:

6) Lighten Up (lighten? whiten?)

“Black people are just are too sensitive and thin-skinned.” or “Indians should get a sense of humor. We’re just kidding around.” or “I didn’t mean anything racist, it’s just a joke.”


Reality Check and Consequence

Here are racism and agent deletion in partnership again. The problem and perpetrators are exonerated, because the rationale declares that humor isn’t hurtful. This form of denial serves most to trivialize the pain and reality of daily racism.


This is kind of in my wheelhouse as it relates to a topic I know pretty well: comedy.

As a graduate of Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Clown College, I learned a few important maxims regarding humor, but one of the most essential ones was:

If you had to say it was a joke, it wasn't funny.

And that applies everywhere, no matter the situation, or the people involved. A joke is supposed to make people laugh. If you need to say that your comment was a joke, it definitely didn't work.

Comedy and racism have a long history in this country, with most of it not very funny. There has been a litany of racist jokes, images, stereotypes, artistic renderings, songs, staged performances, cartoons, comics, films, radio and television programs, and, of course, the general public all making fun of minorities.

It would be one thing if that were it and the problem was just the fact that these things existed. But it really goes beyond that. Because people behave based on atmospheres. If it's perfectly fine to make fun of the shape of someone's eyes, the color of their skin, and other elements of who they are, then people will continually do that. And if that happens, there is no sensitivity. There is no empathy. There is no understanding. That's really the reason "Political Correctness" came along: to stem the tide of such commentary.

It's interesting that many people, most especially some high profile politicians, are now making comments about tossing away "political correctness." Really, isn't being "politically correct" is just another way of saying you're being polite? Jokes made at the expense of those less fortunate are never a positive. The phrase "don't kick someone when they're down" was created for such a situation. And that's why it's so puzzling to see a kind of resurgence in this sort of material.

Again, not to assume any of this is straightforward narrative, but when you don't understand the racist atmosphere we collectively live in, it's difficult to understand the actions of black people and why they are offended that there are no dolls that match varying skin tones for their kids to play with or why there was such an outcry over the forty Academy Awards acting nominations over the past two years being all white. This is more than just a joke.

But, of course, all of this is why we need to have an open discussion about racism in America and why we can no longer continue to ignore these issues. It's time to start talking about how these issues affects and impacts all of us, not just minority people, because that contributes to both how we see each other and how we see ourselves.


Previous thinkposts in this series:

1. Day One - I'm Colorblind
2. Day Two - Bootstrap Theory
3. Day Three - Reverse Racism
4. Day Four - Blame The Victim
5. Day Five - The White Knight

A reminder: because of the sensitive nature of the subject, comments directly to this and all previous and future essays in this series are screened. Thank you.
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If you haven't been following along, I've been taking a good long look at Jona Olsson's "Detour-Spotting" essay, where she lays out every single excuse white people have for not confronting their participation in perpetuating racism, and how that has ostensibly prevented any significant forward progress, despite things like the Civil Rights Act, the Fair Housing Act and the election of the First African American President of the United States.

Ms. Olsson wrote this essay for people like her, white folks who have no stomach for racist actions and attitudes, because even within the desire to repair and reassemble our country with the novel thought that all of us are created equal, there is a systematic element within our country that helps prevent even the most staunch and determined anti-racist from making any inroads away from How Things Are.

Today, we're examining another in the list.

5) The White Knight or White Missionary

“We (white people) know just where to build your new community center.” or “Your young people (read youth of color) would be better served by traveling to our suburban training center.” or “We (white people) organized a used clothing drive for you, where do you want us to put the clothes?”


Reality Check and Consequence

It is a racist, paternalistic assumption that well meaning white people know what’s best for people of color. Decisions, by white people, are made on behalf of people of color, as though they were incapable of making their own. This is another version of “blame the victim” and white is right. It places the problems at the feet of people of color, and the only “appropriate” solutions with white people. Once more the power of self-determination is taken away from people of color. Regardless of motive, it is still about white control.


This one is far from the worst offense on our list, but it is clearly problematic for a couple of obvious reasons. First, the white people in question are looking to both control a circumstance and, presumably, be rewarded for their efforts. They are coming in to "save" black people whom they view as not capable of handling their circumstances. The term "patronizing" comes to mind. But it also speaks to a mindset that has, at heart, an overarching sense that black people are like children that must be given things or must be treated in a manner other than full fledged humans. On that point alone, this sort of thinking can do tremendous damage.

Keep in mind, the people who might be involved in a scenario like this are as well-meaning and likely as full of good intentions as anyone could be. But again, unintentional racism doesn't make the action any less racist.

The fact is, most of the issues that pepper this list could be resolved with relative ease if the people who are working as white anti-racists would simply see and understand that they don't see and understand black people as being at all like they are. This is rooted in neighborhood enclaves where only white people live and office scenarios where only white people work. If you aren't around any black people, or even just a tiny handful, you really have no concept of who they are, what they do, how they act or what they want. It's pretty much impossible to prove the kind of person you are when you are never there. That's what we're talking about when it comes to racism.

Again, most of these issues are not A + B = C. It's a bit more challenging and a bit more arcane. That means that people may not be willing or able to follow along, and that continues to help prevent a suitable resolution, even among people who are trying to participate. With so many ways to go wrong, how can any of this work out right?



Previous thinkposts in this series:

1. Day One - I'm Colorblind
2. Day Two - Bootstrap Theory
3. Day Three - Reverse Racism
4. Day Four - Blame The Victim

A reminder: because of the sensitive nature of the subject, comments directly to this and all previous and future essays in this series are screened. Thank you.
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Jona Olsson really hit the nail on the head when she wrote Detour-Spotting. It really is a comprehensive view of racism and the elements that make it next to impossible to prevent it in the United States. Ultimately, the problems meticulously cited in this essay are basically true, more or less, for not just the USA, but for most all of Europe, Australia, New Zealand...

I hope you're finding some worth and meaning in this series of thinkposts. Here's the one for today:

4) Blame The Victim

“It’s their fault they can’t get a job, or be managers.” or “We have advertised everywhere, there just aren’t any qualified people of color for this job.” or “If he only worked harder, applied himself more, or had a stronger work ethic.” or

“If she just felt better about herself...” or “Internalized racism is the real problem here.” or “She uses racism as an excuse, to divert us from her incompetence.” and “If he didn’t go looking for racism everywhere...” (As if racism is so hidden or difficult to uncover that people of color would have to search for it.)

Reality Check and Consequence

All “blame the victim” behaviors have two things in common. First, they evade the real problem: racism. Second, they delete from the picture the agents of racism, white people and institutions, who either intentionally perpetuate or unintentionally collude with racism. (Similar to agent deletion in discussions of rape. Most statements refer to a woman being raped, focus on her clothing or behavior at the time of the rape and delete the male rapist from the picture.) As long as the focus remains on people of color we can minimize or dismiss their reactions, and never have to look directly at racism and our own responsibility or collusion.


Sexism and racism are closely related and connecting them, the way Ms. Olsson does here, makes that point very easy to see. We invariably hear about how a rape victim is quizzed about what she wore, how that might have differed from what she regularly wears, her drinking, smoking or drug usage during the time in question and anything she might have said or done to create an atmosphere that made her need to be raped.

Think about that.

The "she was asking for it" defense puts the choice to rape her by the perpetrator on the back burner. That person isn't responsible, and none of this would have happened if the hem of her skirt were three inches lower, or her jeans weren't so tight or if she wore a bra.

That's dead wrong.

But it's a way of protecting the attacker, of shielding what he did, of preventing him from being viewed for his decision to physically force his victim into that heinous situation.

And this method of ignoring racism does the very same thing. It's a very common response to simply blame the victim for their inability to achieve, for not being prepared, for being the reason they failed.

If we can see that blaming a rape victim for her attack is nonsense, and we should, no matter what she wore, who she was, what her job was, or what her stature in life was, or any of the elements that were about her at the moment of the assault, then all of these other elements we are discussing when it comes to racism must also be examined as the hollow excuses they are.

Now, to dig a bit deeper here, this is one of those circumstances where proponents of this concept might consider themselves "justified," as qualifications for jobs do require certain skills. Let's be honest, though. A lot of the job requirements are arbitrary and are designed to make sure that applicants who either can't prove or don't have the skills listed won't even send a résumé. And that's just another method of assuring that a minority job seeker won't get that position. They won't even apply.

But, for the sake of argument, let's say that all of the skills listed as requisite are actually needed. Acquiring the skills to accomplish the task means you need training. And that training may not be readily available to you if you weren't accepted to the school that could have provided it, if you weren't able to afford to attend that school, if you weren't aware that a particular school could have provided your training, if you didn't know such a school existed.

So, even in a case where you might claim that an applicant wasn't suitable for the job, the root still likely comes back to racism in some form. You see how complex and challenging discussing racism can be? This isn't always an obvious or a straightforward issue, but that doesn't mean it's not the root element that created the problem. This is why and how we require a discussion of race in America. The subtlety of racism can be very easily overlooked in some cases. But the results are anything but subtle.

We have to stop blaming the victims.

Previous thinkposts in this series:

1. Day One - I'm Colorblind
2. Day Two - Bootstrap Theory
3. Day Three - Reverse Racism

A reminder: because of the sensitive nature of the subject, comments directly to this and all previous and future essays in this series are screened. Thank you.
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As we go through Jona Olsson's essay on spotting the Detours regarding racism in America together, one day at a time, one point at a time, there are clearly some elements that are more frequently a problem than others. This time, we're looking at one that has been getting a lot of play lately.

3) Reverse Racism

(a) “People of color are just as racist as white people.”

(b) “Affirmative Action had a role years ago, but today it’s just reverse racism; now it’s discriminating against white men.”

(c) “The civil rights movement, when it began was appropriate, valuable, needed. But it’s gone to the extreme. The playing field is now level. Now the civil rights movement is no longer working for equality but for revenge.” or

(d) “Black Pride, Black Power is dangerous. They just want power over white people.” (Include here any reference to pride and empowerment of any people of color.)



Reality Check and Consequence

(a) Let’s first define racism:

Racism = Racial Prejudice (white people and people of color have this)

Plus

Systemic, Institutional Power (white people have this)

To say people of color can be racist, denies the power imbalance inherent in institutionalized racism.

Certainly, people of color can be and are prejudiced against white people. That was a part of their societal conditioning. A person of color can act on their prejudices to insult even hurt a white person. But there is a difference between being hurt and being oppressed. People of color, as a social group, do not have the societal, institutional power to oppress white people as a group. An individual person of color abusing a white person - while clearly wrong, (no person should be insulted, hurt, etc.) is acting out a personal racial prejudice, not racism (by this power definition.)

(b) This form of denial is based in the false notion that the playing field is now level. When the people with privilege and historical access and advantage are expected to suddenly (in societal evolution time) share some of that power, it is often perceived as discrimination.

(c + d) c is a statement by Rush Limbaugh. Though, clearly he is no anti-racist, both c + d follow closely on the heels of “reverse racism” and are loaded with white people’s fear of people of color and what would happen if they gained “control.” Embedded here is also the assumption that to be “pro-Black” (or any color) is to be anti-white. (A similar illogical accusation is directed at women who work for an end to violence against women and girls. Women who work to better the lives of women are regularly accused of being “anti-male.”)


Here we have a major stumbling block to any discussion of racism in America. The definition of "racism" is not seen the same way by white people and black people. If we can't even agree on what the word means, how can we even begin to talk about this issue, let alone resolve it? Decades, even centuries, have passed with this "defining" issue being... well... a defining issue.

This definition problem speaks directly to self-image and the myth that white people are, by default, always good and always right. If "reverse racism" existed, then nobody is better or worse because everyone is doing it. We are collectively sharing in the bad behavior. But, that doesn't jibe with the fact that oppression is something black people have no ability to wield over white people in this white supremacist nation, and it's oppression that creates many of the problems we are discussing when it comes to this topic.

It's important to be very clear: the United States, being a white supremacist nation, is part of the reason why many white people refuse to examine the proper definition of racism. If you can overlook the privilege of the position that white people have in our society, you can continue to believe that the playing field is actually level and that everyone has a fair chance to succeed.

Inherently, we know that the US is a white supremacist nation. And that is also why there is fear of "retribution" on the part of white people, afraid of "revenge" from black people. Better to continue to oppress and avoid any chance of that occurring.

Of course, all of these assumptions of why black people are "causing issues" or "what they might do if they had the chance" are based in white fear fantasies, in "what would I do if that were me" imaginings, in echo chamber discussions with other white people who may not even know or speak with any persons of color who are friends, neighbors or relatives. And that has its roots in our distant history.

The big issue that Jim Crow created, aside from the obvious advantages of property ownership, better schools and all of the elements that white people demonstrably benefited from during that era, is that there was no opportunity for white people to empirically view exactly who black people were, just how they behaved, just what they wanted for their lives and families, just how hard they were willing to work for this country, for their freedom, for themselves. After all, look how hard they worked as slaves. They literally built the cities, roads, and provided vast wealth from their labor. It's both saddening and telling that when they simply wanted to be treated as the humans they are, black people started being treated with hate and ridicule, being called "lazy" and stereotyped as "do nothings" by white people.

To me, the issue of defining the word racism is possibly the single biggest element that is preventing our discussion of race in America, and that has to be by design. It's easy to clarify any word, to find its meaning, to know what we collectively are discussing when it comes to any topic. How could it be so challenging to understand the meaning of this one word?

Will we all come to an agreement on what racism even is? Or will we continue to postpone the discussion we must have in order to work through this issue once and for all?

Previous thinkposts in this series:

1. Day One - I'm Colorblind
2. Day Two - Bootstrap Theory

A reminder: because of the sensitive nature of the subject, comments directly to this and all previous and future essays in this series are screened. Thank you.
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I'm continuing the examination of Jona Olsson's essay titled "Detour-Spotting," designed to examine the various ways our potential discussion of race and racism in America is constantly getting derailed.

The interesting thing about examining racism through this essay is how even the best intentions of people (especially white people, like Ms. Olsson) who truly want to help end racism can be blocked by the various elements on this list. The discussion changes and once that happens, nothing happens. That's why this is called "Detour-Spotting." We are looking at the ways we detour away from the topic of race in America, preventing the discussion and stopping any progress.

Today's detour was too long to fit into my title.

2) The Rugged Individual, the Level Playing Field and the Bootstrap Theory

“America is the land of opportunity, built by rugged individuals, where anyone with grit can succeed if they just pull up hard enough on their bootstraps.”

Reality Check and Consequence

These are three of the crown jewels of U. S. social propaganda. They have allowed generation after generation to say, “If you succeed, you did that, but if you fail, or if you’re poor, that’s your fault.” Belief in this propaganda is founded in a total denial of the impact of either oppression or privilege on any person’s chance for success.

Attacks on programs like affirmative action find rationalization in the belief that the playing field is now level, that is, that every individual, regardless of color (or gender or disability, etc.) has the same access to the rights, benefits and responsibilities of the society. The rationalization continues: since slavery is ended and people of color have civil rights, the playing field has now been leveled. It follows then, that there is no reason for a person of color to “fail” (whether manifested in low SAT scores or small numbers in management positions) EXCEPT individual character flaws or cultural inadequacies. This form of denial asserts that such “failures” could have no roots in racism and internalized racism.

The consequences include “justified” victim blaming, and denial of the daily impact of generations of institutionalized racism and white privilege.


This is a harsh one but a really common attitude from many white Americans, and you could see a lot of this from the Republican side of the aisle.

Yes, laws have changed. We no longer have Jim Crow. That ended in 1964. But we still have racism. And despite the fact that laws help, people's attitudes, assumptions and stances on people who are not like them continue to perpetuate the same kinds of reactions and responses.

Clearly, this is a method of ignoring the problems we need to be talking about, openly and honestly. Real estate agents will still be able to see the people who want to buy that property. Bankers can still note who is asking for a business loan.

What is really difficult to deal with is the fact that in the poorest parts of our country (not necessarily all that poor because many of them are couched within some of our most successful cities) no help has been offered to improve neighborhoods, infrastructure, or to provide people with support. Flint, Michigan is a great example of this. We haven't really heard any news about Flint in recent weeks. Yes, there have been a series of shootings and terrorist acts to divert our attention, but the truth is, nothing has changed there. People are still drinking from and bathing in bottled water. And there simply isn't enough bottled water available to do the job.

The fact that Flint legislators actively chose to send water from the Flint River, a body of water so polluted, even General Motors could find no use for it in the manufacture of its vehicles, into the sinks and bathtubs of people’s homes is beyond criminal. Children were poisoned, brain damaged, and there is no reversing that.

But the truth is, nothing has really changed there. People are still dealing with this continuing problem of not using indoor plumbing for anything but the toilet. How is THAT acceptable for this country?

In the United States, who you are matters a lot as far as what happens to you.

There are assumptions that are made, based on all of the various cues, and a decision to either help or ignore is made. We saw it during Hurricane Katrina. We saw it from the actions of key members of Congress against President Obama. But perhaps more tragically, we see it in every ghetto in every city in every state, every day.

The real difference between humans isn’t in the physical elements, the melanin content, the nose shape or the lip shape or the body type. The real difference between humans comes through the experiences we have had. This is what makes racism so horrific and tragic and makes the bad things we constantly talk about occur. Remove the experience of racism from everyone’s lives and suddenly, we have that level playing field. Schools are not prisons with teachers that are simply babysitting. People can get good paying jobs and earn a living. Poverty can start to erode. Crime, especially violent crime, can start to diminish.

But that requires the desire to actually make that happen, which, if we’re being honest, isn’t a very strong want from the people in charge.

I don’t want to get too far afield from the topic of this segment. There will be other times we can double back to some of these issues.

The point being made on this detour is that by doing the hard work, people can succeed, no matter who they are. And that’s the fallacy. Some people can succeed, and, as I pointed out in my essay about racism being an addiction, many black people who do become successful have done so because they received support from the system. They had a powerful white advocate that helped at a good moment or they had a lighter skin tone that wasn’t as offensive, or they had a charming personality or some other attractive element that made them “less threatening” to white folks who might have blocked their path.

I know that sounds like a hollow accusation. I know that sounds like blaming a non-existent entity for an individual's troubles. And I know that those thoughts are why any criticism of this "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" concept are usually rejected out of hand by many white people. They aren't aware of racism, what impact it has and how it upends many people who have every desire to do the work but can't because that option is not available.

Conversely, if you look at the easy path to success of many white folks in the nation, it's simply a matter of inheritance - getting money from their wealthy parents who got it from their parents and so on, all the way back to the slave trade days. A person like Donald Trump would not be on the world stage if he didn't have a father who gave him his start. That's privilege. Very few black people have that kind of experience. So, in the case of any black person's success, it really needs to be examined in a different way.

The problem with looking at any “success story” in the case of black Americans is that those are things that can never be recreated. There is no "system" of success. You can’t follow Oprah’s path to brilliance. You won’t be able to duplicate Tyler Perry’s career. And really, that’s the biggest issue. Finding a way into success when so many doors are closed or worse, locked, would be challenging for anyone. But what if you live in an unsafe neighborhood? What if you don’t get enough to eat on a daily basis? What if you are constantly dealing with police harassment or being offered drugs or alcohol? It's these extra "challenges" that create an unfair circumstance for many black citizens of this country and create the underclass that the well-to-do are so ready to mock, ridicule or perhaps worst of all, ignore.

Yes, some will still succeed. There are always exceptions to the rule that escape their life circumstances, just as surely as there are people who win huge jackpots at a Las Vegas Casino. But that opportunity is not available to all. And when it comes to racism, it’s about ALL. It’s about making things fair for everyone to have a good life, not just a random handful.

If that concept doesn’t make sense to you, that’s okay. We’re just getting started.

Previous thinkposts in this series:
1. Day One - "I'm Colorblind"

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There's something pressing on my mind and that is related to an essay by Jona Olsson.

Ms. Olsson is one of the first white people since Jane Elliott and Tim Wise who really has a handle on race in a way that allows her to explain it in terms that break it down into pieces that are easily digested.

She had written a lengthy essay titled "Detour-Spotting" subtitled "for white anti-racists" and it essentially gives a guided tour of pretty much every single argument for why we haven't been able to have a proper discussion of Race in America and why racism still has a stranglehold on our country and its collective citizens. I can't recommend this piece enough because it really allows a better understanding from the perspective of a white person trying to grapple with the concept of "privilege" and "oppression" in our society, and is very worthwhile. Of course, the essay is not "new," it dates back to 1997, with updates in 2005 and 2011. But, the time has come to re-examine this piece, as I'm sure you will agree.

The link to her original essay is HERE, and it deserves to be read, in its entirety.

But I wanted to go it one better. Because of the massive size of her composition, and because some of the things she discusses really do need to be unpacked in a more complete and/or a more precise way, I thought I would go through and take each of her points, one at a time, and expand on them, giving you a better and more comprehensive view of what she is talking about. I'll post her portion of the essay, then give some commentary about it.

We begin with Ms. Olsson's opening comments... )
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What we're seeing now is a devolving situation. Over and over, police officers shoot and kill black citizens. They don't even face charges, which means they don't even go to court to answer to their actions. Everything continues as it was. Frustration builds with every death and with every systematic choice to ignore the facts, to gloss over the situation, to criminalize the dead. Soon, some want to resort to creating their own justice. And you get Dallas.

We are in a very volatile and dangerous moment in American History. We are at a crossroads.

There is no justifying killing someone under the conditions we are witnessing. This is especially true of police officers who receive hours of training and learning proper protocols for situations they face on the job. When you have the training and the know-how and the understanding of your role, you need to enact it properly.

The tragedy in Dallas, a city I was just visiting a month ago, goes to all of the problems we are seeing with the country as a whole. When the system isn't working for you, make a new system. When you as a human are not valued, you have nothing left to lose.

Of course, killing random police officers only makes everything worse. Those that were patrolling the protests in Dallas were likely the best cops, those that care about what they see and are trying to make a difference. The cowardly cops that shoot and kill citizens that they stop likely would never take that assignment, so this only makes it that much worse.

But it's easy to see how this schoolyard shoving match with bullets is turning our country back into the Wild West.

Killing police officers is literally giving ammunition to the side that wants to characterize black people as animals. This, despite the fact that the situation leaves very few options for recourse. Still, the idea that Martin Luther King put forth does apply here. We all can't act with violence.

It seems as though every day something horrifying is happening. This is all due, in my opinion, because we have still not talked about race as an issue in America.

Police officers, protesters, people at traffic stops, we are all human beings. None of us is better or worse for who we are. But saying that all humans are the same and actually believing it and acting it clearly is not happening.

It feels a bit like a civil war is happening. That's all to do with not having a discussion about these issues. And putting that discussion off again will only continue the Status Quo.

We have to start talking about this issue. But how can we begin?

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