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Whitney Houston died on February 11, 2012. That's six years ago, today. And a lovely remembrance of her was given back then by Robyn Crawford, who gave her testimony to Esquire Magazine the following day. That article is HERE Ms. Crawford and Houston were inseparable for many years, until Bobby Brown, more or less, forced her out of Whitney's orbit.

That article from Esquire s a part of the source material for THIS PIECE as seen in Britain's Telegraph from September of last year, suggesting that Robyn and Whitney were more than friends, they were lovers. It's not like this is a revelation; tabloid papers and show biz gossip had suggested this during Whitney's run of success in the late 80s into the 90s.

The documentary Whitney: Can I Be Me" which was theatrically released in August of 2017 and is currently available on Showtime, revisits this as it explores that element of Whitney's life, and it also suggests that Whitney's mom, noted gospel singer Cissy Houston, would not have approved of such a relationship.

Still, you have to wonder about the elements of negativity that were sparked during her marriage to Bobby Brown and how this possible, and likely, relationship with Crawford would have been nearly as bad. The implication was that Whitney was bisexual and that she was getting something from both her relationship with Crawford as well as with her marriage to Brown, something she lost when Brown forced Crawford away.

It really speaks to what we value in life, to what we think is "acceptable." Bobby Brown, who emotionally manipulated Whitney, who, it was stated in the film, introduced her to alcohol (while she likely introduced drugs to him) and they both started to do both regularly, created that dynamic between them, a key element in her demise. Crawford, a stabilizing force in her life was pushed out and her father, who eventually sued his daughter for breach of contract and failure to pay must have crushed her in ways we could have never known.

The whole concept of what life is really about is called into question when you examine it from an angle like that.

Still, the documentary, which neither received input nor approval from Crawford, is one worth viewing as we try to reassemble the pieces of who this legendary performer was and how she came to be, then came to be destroyed. It truly is the Cinderella story, without the happy ending. It's chilling to watch each step on that path taking her down a road of no return. Couldn't she have been saved? And if she couldn't, might this happen to any among us?

"Whitney: Can I Be Me" is currently available through Showtime's "On Demand" service. It's listed under the "Black History Month" category. It will also air on Sho Next tonight at 8pm.
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am·biv·a·lence
amˈbivələns/

noun

the state of having mixed feelings or contradictory ideas about something or someone.

"the law's ambivalence about the importance of a victim's identity"


I have previously stated that there are times, based on your level of knowledge or experience, when there is a clear level of ambivalence about being an African-American citizen in the United States. These tend to be around days of National celebration, like Independence Day, Columbus Day, and yes, the month of February, which has come to represent "Black History Month."

The reason why the shortest month of the year became the month to celebrate African American history was, in fact, a reasonable element. It began as "Negro History Week" in 1926. This was chosen to be observed during the second week of February to coincide with the birthdays of Abraham Lincoln (on the 12th) and Frederick Douglass (on the 14th).

In 1970 Kent State University expanded this concept to the entire month of February. By 1976, President Ford acknowledged the event, as it had expanded to learning institutions all over the country.

There is a lot of ambivalence when we talk about Black History. Isn't "Black" History just "history?" Why do we need a "Black History Month?" Doesn't celebrating Black History during February downplay those elements the rest of the year? Why is there no "White History Month"?

These are questions that have been asked of black people since the Bicentennial.

There are a lot of questions, a lot of issues, a lot of split opinions on Black History Month. Most famously, in a "60 Mintutes" interview with Mike Wallace, Morgan Freeman, who actually wasn't talking about this particular element as a topic of discussion, the conversation just meandered over into it, gave this famous quote, that a lot of people looking to squelch any celebration of black people love to play over and over again:



There are some serious issues with this concept, which has continually been trotted out since this interview happened in 2005, a dozen years ago. The first is it suggests that Black History is relegated to one month. Clearly it is not. It also suggests that Black History is not the same as history. We know that isn't true either.

Freeman also states that if we simply stop talking about racism, it will ebb away. But no social problem ever disappears without society confronting it, examining its moving parts, understanding how it works and who is benefiting from it and then dismantling it, piece by piece.

The problem that we have is similar to my issue with the Day 16 entry in my 30 Day Music Challenge. In case you need a refresher, that was the day listed as "A Song You Used To Love But Now You Don't" and my selection was Louis Armstrong's "What A Wonderful World." Here we have a wizened black man stating that we need to stop talking about race in America if we are going to resolve it. That is exactly what the White Nationalists want to hear. A message like that allows them to ignore everything else because they found one black guy to say that we should ignore it.

I would note that Mr. Freeman has not said anything of this sort since that time, so if he felt as strongly about it now as he did then, he definitely has not expressed that.

I would say that if we actually did use Black History Month as a method for learning some facts, for understanding some truths, for building some empathy, for examining our society, it would be worth it.

But that's not up to me.

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